Bros… Your kindness does not entitle you to anything. When you do something genuinely, you do so without seeking a reward. If you need someone to tell you how amazing you are for opening doors, treating for meals, or helping someone in need, I’d wager you’re not as kind as you think you are.
It’s cool when you’re being complimented for doing nice things, but it’s not needed. A gentleman doesn’t do it for show, he does so because that’s who he is.